The advantage & disadvantage of to have children
Japanese women are facing difficlties to have children because there are many issues in Japanese society. Nozomi mentioned that many people are facing financial problems to have children because they have to pay lots, such as hospital fees, school tuitions and clamschool fees. Therefore, young couples cannot have children easily, Yukiko explaines that. in addition, governmenr has to develop the law to support parents more.
On the other hand, people believe that to have children brings a lot of benefits for parents and families. Nujood mentiomed that parents have responsibility to grow up children; however, through the child raising, it bring fun and happy. Only parents who have children can have these experiences.
The advantage & disadvantage of to live parents
Hanadi explained Soudi Arabian's traditional way the relationshop children and parents. In her country, the youngest child live with their parents and take care of them. This style is opposite of Japanese style. Hand in hand with parents' aging, family has responsibilty to take care of them; however, it cause many serious problems which are Alzheimer, dementia and moter disturbance. Yukiko explained her Japanese family's situation. Her family was extended family, so when she was a child her grandparets were taking care of her. It was an advantage of her parents because they could continue their jobs.
On the other hand, this family structure is not always fanction well because sometimes her grandparents and her mother had troubles. Originally they were from different families; therefore, imbroglios are common problem betwee daughter-in-low and parens-in law. This question is an big decision for women whether to live with parents-in-low or not.
